Tuesday, 24 May 2011

Self control.

What I wanna write about is actually anger but think self control captures it better.

Now, a client came into the office and brought down the roof, yes, he had a right to be angry, we all do because we are human and it's a normal phenomenon. This man which I will represent as Mr. X embarrassed himself and what he stands to represent as far as I am concerned.

Mr. X's voice was louder than the noise from a petrol generator, he went on and on and refused to calm down, in fact a colleague attempted to calm him down and we could see a punch almost forming on his fist, we all had to step back, thats not all, Mr. X rained abuses and called us names, I just couldn't help feeling sorry for him and his wife too.

It's a very long story but I will just capture the relevant part of the drama. In my own opinion, I believe whoever cannot be calmed down when he/she is angry needs help. I strongly believe that there should be a limit to certain things, I personally can categorically testify that I am not proud of some things my anger has caused me to do and say. Once that word goes out of your mouth, it cannot be taken back!

Also, whoever has not regretted any action taken in anger equally needs to be checked. Anger destroys things, people and eventually destroys us. 

Am reaching out to whomever is dealing with anger, knowing that it's a serious issue is a big step in solving the problem. Ask God for help, do the opposite of what you would normally do when you are angry and make deliberate attempts to let things go.


Wednesday, 18 May 2011

All things are possible....

I was greatly encouraged yesterday.

Someone came to my office and we got talking, first about his children and then about his early years of marriage.

He told me that his wife didn't want to marry him because the doctor her that she couldn't bear children. She rejected the proposal to be his wife as she couldn't imagine not being able to bear him children.

He strongly believed in God and was convinced he will have children. Four months into their marriage, his wife conceived and gave birth to twins ( boy and girl). There is absolutely nothing impossible for God to do as long as we put our trust in Him.

I want to encourage everyone who is believing God for something, if He has said it, it will surely come to pass.

Be encouraged, all things are possible!

Saturday, 14 May 2011

Its a beautiful day outside!

The topic is the title of a song by lighthouse family.

I have observed that i get angry too frequently, i get upset very easily, and i have terrible mood swings. This is not me and i refuse to be an angry person. Life and death lies in the power of the tongue so when things are going wrong, I shall make positive confessions ONLY!

That said, i feel i am in another season of my life. I just took a bold step to do something that has kind of scared me overtime and am glad am doing it. The Lord is my strength...

Its a wet saturday, am working and it is a beautiful day outside.

Y'all should enjoy the weekend....monday is almost here again!!!

Tuesday, 10 May 2011

Random (2)

It feels like i have been away for soooo long. Work has been very hectic as usual so i have not had so much time to write.

The sad part of not blogging for a long time is that there is always so much much to say but events and more events would overtake the gist and then finding a place to start from becomes super difficult...

So many things have happened, big brother yes! purging Toskin yes! I purged my stomach out on Sunday morning, managed to go to church and it still continued, the a/c in the church toilet was what gave me the courage to attend the service just incase there was an emergency and yes, there was! Well.....to cut the long story short thank God i am much better, am also thankful to bee, chilli, awa and my cuz. Awon doctors toh badt!

Back to church, the service was awesome, i was very glad i made it, the message was mind blowing, all i can say is "Men ought always to pray and not to faint", thats is the summary of the preaching.

Big brother is indeed amplified, nominations have begun, the house has been divided into heads and tails and the drama has started. I don't know if i have a favorite housemate yet but i think Lomwe is cool and am glad Lohan made it to the head's house.

Love muchos!